Couple Phobia
“We stay together, we have sex, and we are spending times with kids, now we only have a time for kids. I always feel something really missing. We don’t feel close to each other” this is the story of Mrs. Johnson. Is your story same? Then find out what is missing. Many couples share the same story.
When couple got married they start on starry eyed for a year after some time they really fizz. After some day’s or months changes come into life like job lose, having kids, financial problem etc n becomes the causes off unemotional relationship. Couples need some skill to maintain their relationship. First step is to find out the problem or causes. They lost that x- factory .Then start mission to find out what really missing?
Time
Find out how much time you are spending with your partner? Though you are spending lots of time with your spouse does he /she like that. Does that time are qualitative? If you are busy whole week are you doing anything special on weekend for your partner? Find out the answers off all these questions. If the answers are in “no” then you have to think about your work n about your partner. Find out some time in your busy schedule and make that time qualitative. Plenty of time doesn’t work instead off qualitative time. Make some tricks for having good time with each other.
Do you or your mate is under depressions-
Two people who love each other profoundly may going through an extraordinarily stressful period time instead of talking about their emotion they show anger, fear frustration etc. that will become the cause of emotional distains. Is this your case then find out some time for mate do less work, set your bounders for work, what is the reason to work if your marriage is under black shadow? Take a vacation with mate. Talk some romantic stuff. Remember one thing, you may often end up with low level depression or irritability, you pay a price for it.
Do both off you sharing common interest?-
In this year, have you seen any baseball match together? . It is not only about the match it is the feeling with each other. Do both off you have common interest? If yes, then no problem but if both of you doesn’t’ have common interest then find some time for partners interest. That will give the feeling off interest not in his ‘likes’ but in ‘him/her’.
Are you making your partner bored?
Though you are spending ample of time with each other, It doesn’t’ work if you are making bored to him/her. Find out that your partner like your company or not. If ‘yes’, then find out the answer. Why he/ she bored with you. Avoid the things that made spouse bored. Do those things which your partner may like or love to do with you.
Is spouse avoiding you?
If your spouse is not finding any interest in you he or she will avoid you. Partner may not say it directly he/she may have sex with you, taking care of you but if spouse start avoiding you then it is red signal for you. Think out that signal and find out the cause for avoiding you.
Communicate with your partner
Start communicating with your partner. Communication is the best way to solve any problem. Ask your partner what he/she thinks about your relationship. Talk openly what you feel. It is possible that your partner may not think that your relationship lost x factor. Your partner may thinking that both off you have in nice a relationship. If any problem is their talk about and find out solution for that with partner’s help.
For a magical relationship we have to learn the art of self observation. Observe yourself may be you got your answer to make you r relationship magical.
