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Every second you can’t please your partner. Many times you very well know that he/she will be anger but you have to do that thing for example Shush was unhappy when her boyfriend was away from her on weekends. But sometime her boyfriend need to go away on weekends for business meeting or else.  Shush said “I get very anger but when he meet me he make me happy anyhow! He very well knows how to make me happy”. So friends you should know how to delight your partner here are some tips for you-

·         Flowers make people happy. When you meet try to have flowers with you. It will delightful to have flowers gifted by others.

·         Surprises made anyone happy. Surprise can be anything pool party, surprise party, candle light dinner or food prepare by you. Any surprise can delight your partner but make sure that chosen surprise will not hurt any way to your love.

·         Cards can also delight. Those who cannot express their feeling properly they can take help of cards which express their feelings. Check e-cards also just for say SORRY you will get lots of websites also. Choose your way.

·         Texting is also a great way to delight. Text him/her without any specific reason. Text joyful message to say good morning or good night or simply say I LOVE U.

·         Laughing is also great act to make him/her delight. Tell funny jokes or watch funny movies which will help you to delight your companion. But be sure that your jokes will not irritate him/her.

·         Send notes or letters. This is also good idea to delight your mate. Write something romantic and keep your note or letter where your mate can get it easily for example near mirror, under his/her dress or on study table etc.

·         Sharing also delight your mate. You can share anything chocolate, milkshake, ice cream or blanket.

·         Parsing is the best quality to delight other. Your mate always loves to hear parsing words for him/her. While parsing be sure you are not laying otherwise your mate will get more anger on you.

·         Recalling good memories can also make your mate delight. Try to recall your good memories and your reactions and see how your mate is reacting.

·         Everyone loves to get gift. It is a very simple way to make your mate happy. Gift whatever he/she likes. It may be book, dress, perfume, pen or computer anything.

Remember whatever you do your eyes speak a lot and speak truth. There is no best way to delight your mate so here are only suggestions. You find your own way best luck friends!

It happens in dating life men take step back. On the act of this female feel ditched and found them in a great sorrow of wheel. Women scold of men for taking step back. Some time they want to take revenge on. If you stay silent and listen to heart we will find that very decision is depend upon some cause. If we want to know why the decision is made, for that we need to understand causes behind it.

Let’s see why men step back-

1.     When found women uninteresting-relationship is depend upon both the persons interaction. Before loving each other they like each other’s activity.  They should like by each other. It is not important that if female like any man, he should like same women. He may be interested in other female also. We cannot predict who like what? It is depend upon person. Everyone is unique.  According to a new study Women take just 3 minutes to decide whether she likes a man or not. According to the same study, women believe 180 seconds is long enough to gauge whether he is Mr Right, or Mr Wrong. The study also found women rarely change their mind about a man after their initial reaction - and believe they are 'always right' in their assumptions and judgments. This is the reason why women should get very disturb when they come to know that her man is not taking step ahead or he is ready to step back. If a woman is found cold by the man they soon lose their interest in that cold woman. There is not any specify reason for finding women cold by men.

2.     When they are not ready for relationship- they feel coward to tell that they are not ready for any relationship. So taking step back is very easy way to run from giving answer to any questions. They know very well that after taking step back women will through him out of her life. So females don’t think too much about it. You must have another one waiting for you.

3.     They are focusing very short term benefits- some guys are really focusing on very short term benefit such as sex money etc. these men don’t have to do  anything with emotional needs. They never plan for their future. They’ll also fake a future to get what they want. Gel my net friend her story “my first boy friend is very good in sex. He gave me lot of pleasure. I really like to be with him in night. We both play sexy nights.  When question came about my emotions he seems to be emotional less. I was very upset when he didn’t understand me. After some days I got signals that he is not interested to move ahead but I was hoping things to be change. Yes my life change one day. I found my boy friend ran away with all my bank balance which I made for our life. I learn from this experience that please you by sex are not important he will please you all over your life”. When men are thinking step back doesn’t force them it will create disaster for your life.

4.     His finical position- some men are really serious about their future. They plan various things. If there finical position is not stable they must be worried about their relationship. Men’s ego hurt when they found they are unable to manage their family finically so maybe they will not talk about money with you, but they will take step back if they are unable to give you good and secure future. 

5 May be they found you pressuring for commitment- if your goals for relationship are not the same then you will experiences problems. If your desire for a permanent relationship is different from your guys, pay close attention. You may run him off without intending to.Men also leave women who try to press them for commitment before they are ready. You have been with your guy for what you consider "long enough" now you want to o settle down and make this relationship permanent. You give off numerous hints and try to talk to him about it. If you are experiencing this and you find your guy becoming more distant instead of more committed, just maybe the commitment is not what he wants. Perhaps he has no intention of marrying you at all. You have to decide what your options and your actions are going to be. Pressuring your partner for a commitment is not the best thing to do. Even if he is not ever going to make a commitment to you, it is best to end it without drama. You will end up hurt and full of resentment.

"Don’t be with a man who consistently shows that he is incapable of any positive emotional consistency or depth. "

Your eyes are the windows of your heart. If you want to read any one’s mind read his/her eyes they never lie. Men ogle the object they desire but women nerve is striate she rarely talks what is going in her mind. In both the cases eyes are true but if you are illiterate in eyes language here are some ways mention that says I Love You without words. 

For male- if she is interested in you. She will do following things.

·         She is expecting compliment from you-if she is wearing a new dress and constantly trying to show you. She is speaking how her other friends compliment her for new dress, then she want a compliment from you and if she want compliment for her every dress that mean she want you notice her and she may going to say you I love you soon.

·         She is dressing for you- if she is wearing your favorite color very often. Not her but she is wearing your favorite dress and asking your suggestions for her wearing then this is the sign she may find you interesting and want you to take in her interest.

·         She is learning to prepare your favorite food- is she learning to cook your favorite food from website TV shows or any other places? Is she bringing food for you, which is cook by her then she is trying to win your heart by your stomach.

·         She is trying to attract you- when a girl is interested in any guy. She want that guy should appreciate her for her beauty. She may try to look beautiful by wearing short and sexy dress. In which she can show her beautiful body. She may wear different types of perfume, jewelers’ etc nothing for else than attract you then man listen to her heart it is tuning on I love you.

·         She is ready to share your sorrow- those who are soul mate always ready to share not only body but also their sorrow as well as happy movement of life. If she is sharing her sorrow though she is facing problem in her life. Then there is a chance she may want you as her soul mate as well as her partner for life.

·         She is trying to make you smile when your stress- when you are stress is she trying to make you smile. Is she doing silly things just for your langue this is the sign which shows she wants your happiness. She cares about not only you but also your happiness. Very less people get partner who care about not for money but for happiness.

·         She feel relax after you share her grief- is she sharing her grief with you? And feel relax after her sharing then here is the sign she may want you share her grief for all over life as a partner. Women very well know that only to show tears them who know value of them. Today’s women never her sorrow comes out except her near one. So if she is sharing her grief mean you are near to her heart.

Females

Females don’t think that every time guys should take first step in your dating life. It is also happen that he is checking your interested or not then he will ask you about that matter. Here are some signs which are telling that he is interested in you and soon going to propose you.

·         When he talking about his future plan-men’s are very easy and striate forward going. When they don’t know how to ask they started sharing about them if any guy is telling his future plans and also talking about how he is doing in upcoming three years then surely he is interested in you and this way he is telling you that yes! I can give you secure future.

·         He is carrying what you gifted- is he carrying a gift which you have given? Whatever gift was keychain or any small thing. Is he wearing often that shirt or sweater which you gifted him then he is interested in you. By carrying your gift he is having feeling of you with him every time and everywhere.

·         Always on time- is he very punctual? Is here arrive restaurant before you then he is eager to meet you. Soon he is going to ask that special question which most of the girl dream. 

·          He does not mind to pick up you – he does not mind to pick you from anywhere airport railway station etc and any time he is ready to join you. Never ask for what why kind of a question then girls this kind of behavior shows that guy is very much interested in you and want your company.

·         He ask about your family –guy is asking about your family and showing his interest in your family then he want to know more about your family here is the chance he is thinking about you. Is he telling about his family and want you take interest in his family then he want to have family with you.